• unemployment
• homelessness
• increased chance of using or experiencing violence in their adult relationships.
To find out more, see protecting children from domestic and family violence.
Research also shows parents who experience domestic and family violence are more likely to:
• change how they parent to avoid more anger and abuse from the other parent
• be less able to meet a child’s needs due to the stress of the abuse
• experience depression and other mental health problems that can affect parenting
• use harsh discipline due to stress. This often stops when the family is safe.
To find out more, see resources.
Getting help to stop or safely leave violence
Giving them structure and routine in parenting
Caring for them and comforting them
Letting them know that it is okay to have feelings
Talking to them about their feelings, worries, hopes and dreams
Giving them positive reinforcement, telling them you love them and that you are proud of them
Respecting them and helping them to show respect for others
Being interested in them and supporting their achievements in school and sport
